What Makes You Feel Bad?

So today's Happiness Project question is What makes you feel bad? What are sources of anger, irritation, boredom, frustration, or anxiety in your life? I hope this is a tougher list to come up with than the what makes you feel good list!

• Being stuck in any type of limbo
• Not being a mom
• People who are totally self-consumed or just don't "get it"
• My mental block about exercising
• Sometimes drinking too much
• The people I love realizing I'm not as special as they think
• Stella's chronic illness and not being able to help her
• Home invasion
• Family drama
• Any type of bigotry (It is 2012 for goodness sake - let it go!)
• Spending what I don't have because it gives me instant gratification
• Letting the people I love down
• Self-loathing (I am way too hard on myself and get stuck in my head a fair amount)
• Not having financial or emotional security
• Death
• Lies
• Nightmares
• Having to own up to this list!

Now this, too, is an extensive list and makes my chest constrict just writing it. What makes you feel bad?